In business and personal life, there are must-haves, nice-to-haves and don't-want-to-haves. If you want to to know what your true intentions are, you need only look at your results. Results speak. Sometimes you do get what you don't want. If something is a must-have, you probably have it. If there is something you say you really want, and you don't have it, it's probably a nice-to-have: either you don't really want it, you are legitimately in the process of getting it, or you don't want it bad enough. What do you really want that you don't have and how do you make sure you get it?